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#IntimacyCode: “My 11 year old wants to have a boyfriend”

Competence: As a follow-up on the discussion yesterday, permit me to share a conversation I witnessed between a mum and her daughter.

“Mum, why can’t I have a boyfriend like Clara?”

“Will you shut up your mouth, you want to have a boyfriend with your poor grades in school. What do you know about boyfriends at 11?”

If you were in the position…

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IntimacyCode: Getting him/her to open up! By Victor Akunna

Someone once asked me, “how do I get my man to open up?”. As I thought about the question, it became obvious to me that the question was about vulnerability and intimacy. We often say, there is no true intimacy without vulnerability. I will share a few points from our relationship.

Confidentiality: During courtship, one of the things we agreed on…

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Discover The Red Spot And Spice Up Your Romance – By Chidi & Victor Akunna

“I love him so much, but I can’t stand him”, “I love her so much, but I don’t feel like a ‘man’ around her”. As relationship coaches, we sometimes hear couples complain along these lines. Often times, they are too embarrassed to voice their thoughts because of the seeming paradox. The belief is often, if we love each other, all…

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Does the Honeymoon Have to End? By Sandi Greene

One night during our engagement, my fiancé, Bob, and I went out for dinner with his parents. His dad unlocked the passenger-side door of the car for his mom without opening it then walked around to the driver’s side. Bob’s mom noticed this and sarcastically pronounced, “Well, I guess the honeymoon’s over!”

Bob and I looked at each other and rolled…

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Unexpected Divorce: Why Some People Abandon Their Marriage By Chidi Akunna

It had been a long week for Fred and he was looking forward to chilling out with his wife and their two children over the weekend. He got home to a quiet house, his wife had taken the children swimming. He looked on the side table, where his wife would normally leave the letters and parcels that came through the…

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