No more sex for me?

imageAfter 4 years of marriage (11 years of relationship – we remained virgins till wedding), my wife doesn’t love me anymore. She confessed that she  loves me as a brother, but she is not attracted to me anymore. She told me that I am a great person, but there is nothing more I have to do to please her. She doesn’t want to make love anymore. She asked that we live together as brothers to raise our child. 6 months ago, she felt she far from Jesus, but after she met her new spiritual father, everything went better for her spiritual side and she feels a lot better now, however, nothing changed towards me. It’s been two months without any affection (not even kissing). I am dying slowly. All internet forums confirm affair, but this is not our case and they won’t understand. If someone can advise me, it would be appreciated. I am really lost. I do love her.

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Chidi & Victor Akunna are leading voices on marital romance and family life. They are passionate about helping individuals, couples and organisations build sustainable and valuable relationships, and testimonials abound. They are authors of many articles and books. They partner in the administration of “Romance Masterclass” – a coaching programme and “Lite the FIRE” workshop – a couples’ romance makeover intervention. Together, they write “Connected Hearts” – a leading daily devotional on spicing up marital romance and strengthening families. They also oversee the operations of Foundation for Family Affairs – a charity focused on strengthening families around the globe. Feel free to enjoy the resources available here!

2 Comments on "No more sex for me?"

  1. “Dying” is serious ooo. This sex issue can become something else. Well, I think your wife may be cheating on you. May be not with another man, although I will recommend you check that out. I think she may be cheating with the children, friends, siblings, and anything or anyone else consuming her attention.

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