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“Romance is a decision: a commitment to do whatever it takes to keep your relationship fresh and exciting.” – Jimmy Evans. It is the little things you do in pursuit of your spouse’s heart, attention and happiness.

The fear of intimacy (Aphenphosmphobia) – Chidi & Victor Akunna

Fear of intimacy

 

Sometimes, the reason spouses are not intimate is not because they don’t know how or why they should build an intimate marriage. Rather, it is because some suffer from Aphenphosmphobia, the fear of being in an intimate relationship. This phobia has been proven to be triggered by abandonment and engulfment.

Understanding the source of your phobia

If you suffer from…

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Intimacy Code 101: Building Memories Together 2 by Chidi and Victor Akunna

Intimacy Code 101: Building Memories Together 2

 

In working with couples, we have discovered that one of the reasons people cheat is because they could not manage the boredom in their marriage. They grew to resent the fact that their marriage was painfully predictable; no adventures, no ‘crazy’ sex, no trips, no new friends, etc.. In one of our online courses,…

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Intimacy Code: Building Memories Together – Chidi & Victor Akunna

We have seen great individuals who had the capacity to become amazing couples, but they failed after a few years of marriage. In marriage, it is not only how you start that keeps you both happy, but what you keep doing. Your daily habits are very critical, they determine if your marriage will make it through different challenges, survive in…

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Why I Cheated on All the Women I Loved by Cliff Townsend

An ex-cheater explains why he cheated, how he stopped, and who he had to become in order to not cheat again.
So you have been cheated on by your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your husband your wife, your fiancé, or just someone who you had an understanding with. This person has shattered the trust that you placed in them. You never thought…

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Girls’ Time Out: Understanding Women! By Chidi and Victor Akunna

Girls’ Time Out: Understanding women!

Betty: For me, talking with my husband without the interruption of our smart phones, TV, tablet or any other gadget is very important, not even our children can take that place. I practically look forward to it, a time just for us to connect and bond. I have come to value it more because I observed…

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Choosing your ‘Escape’ Location by Chidi and Victor Akunna

One key thing that can be overwhelming for couples is choosing where to go for their vacation. In fact, if not properly managed, it can temporarily ruin the fun. Some couples have had to cancel the trip all together, because they could not reach an agreement on where to go.

According to Stephen Covey, one of the habits of highly effective…

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