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#IntimacyCode: “My 11 year old wants to have a boyfriend”

Competence: As a follow-up on the discussion yesterday, permit me to share a conversation I witnessed between a mum and her daughter.

“Mum, why can’t I have a boyfriend like Clara?”

“Will you shut up your mouth, you want to have a boyfriend with your poor grades in school. What do you know about boyfriends at 11?”

If you were in the position…

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Discover The Red Spot And Spice Up Your Romance – By Chidi & Victor Akunna

“I love him so much, but I can’t stand him”, “I love her so much, but I don’t feel like a ‘man’ around her”. As relationship coaches, we sometimes hear couples complain along these lines. Often times, they are too embarrassed to voice their thoughts because of the seeming paradox. The belief is often, if we love each other, all…

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Unexpected Divorce: Why Some People Abandon Their Marriage By Chidi Akunna

It had been a long week for Fred and he was looking forward to chilling out with his wife and their two children over the weekend. He got home to a quiet house, his wife had taken the children swimming. He looked on the side table, where his wife would normally leave the letters and parcels that came through the…

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Submission: The perspective of the 21st century wife – By Uju Okorie

When I was contacted to do an article on submission within the context of marriage, my response was largely the typical Nigerian “Hian! See me see trouble!”😄😄

You will understand this if you have been conversant with the recent violence making rounds on the Internet, against the word “submission”.
Indeed, the vicious attacks visited on that word within cyberspace have been unprecedented.…

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Intimacy Code: Understanding Your Spouse By Chidi Akunna

A key virtue in life is understanding. We need to understand those around us, but what happens when those around us do not understand us?

Sharing an office with others means that we have to at least cope with how they feel as regards the room temperature, they may decide to turn off the heater on a cold Autumn morning☹️️. Last week,…

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