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Relationship

Singlehood is the most important phase before the marriage. It is the foundation of a marriage because who you are as a single is what you will bring into marriage. An unhappy single, plagued with low self-esteem, cannot be a happy spouse in marriage.

Singles Only Chidi and Victor Akunna

As a single person, if you notice that you keep experiencing the same thing, God may be giving you an opportunity to grow. The issue may be something in your blind spot, something you can’t see but which other people can see.

I will be organizing a brief seminar on Thursday to address a few things. This is not for everyone…

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Getting Married? By Chidi and Victor Akunna

Getting Married?
“It was a wonderful reunion after almost 10 years, three of us agreed to visit the cinema to see “The Wedding Party”. We planned to see Sandra later that evening as it was her baby shower after trying for a baby for 5 years. Our evening was amazing, we laughed, ate, screamed, talked about our university crush, who works…

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“Before you say “I DO” By Chidi and Victor Akunna

Before you say “I DO”
Sometimes, when people plan to buy a car, they often put many things into consideration. For instance, anyone buying his/her first car would probably consider the average maintenance cost, the renewal of regular documents, the availability of relevant replacement parts, the fuel consumption level, the general demand for the brand, etc.. This suggests counting the cost…

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Collaboration: A Key To Intimacy – Chidi & Victor Akunna

Collaboration in marriage is the process of working together with your spouse to produce a common result. This implies that you must set aside your own desires to accomplish what will mutually benefit your relationship. This can happen between dating singles, the engaged-to-be-married and married couples alike. Personally, we collaborate a lot on a number of things such as writing,…

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You are better than that! – By Chidi Akunna

You are better than that! 

There are experiences we go through that leave us with so much pain, but we must move beyond the pain. Few years ago, I went through so much that at a point, I began to ask myself, what else can ruffle me beyond this? I felt I had had enough challenges in such a short time;…

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The fear of intimacy (Aphenphosmphobia) – Chidi & Victor Akunna

Fear of intimacy

 

Sometimes, the reason spouses are not intimate is not because they don’t know how or why they should build an intimate marriage. Rather, it is because some suffer from Aphenphosmphobia, the fear of being in an intimate relationship. This phobia has been proven to be triggered by abandonment and engulfment.

Understanding the source of your phobia

If you suffer from…

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