Yesterday, we looked at your mind and sex. To continue the series, we shall be looking at sex and your physiology.
When we started work on our first set of audio books, we had a target. We wanted materials that could be used in any part of the world, not just by a particular region. Thus, we had to work hard to deliver a certain level of quality which required being finicky about the content, package, selection of the voice over artists, spending long hours on studio recordings. There were days we got home around 2am in the morning to catch a few hours sleep in time for the day’s work. Of course, this was followed by planning a workshop where the materials were presented to our friends and ministry partners in the U.K.
Managing and delivering this project applied a lot of pressure on us, squashing our thriving sex life because making out time was practically daunting. However, having an end date in view helped to mitigate things, creating a boundary and helping us take control of our sex life. Leaving things to chance can cause your sex life to spiral out of control.
Hence, if you have a project, just had a baby, recently transferred to a new location to work,… avoid the temptation of thinking, “my spouse would understand”, rather discuss the implications of these changes on your sex life and put a plan in place to get things back on track. You can consider having a timetable, for instance, as this would allow you both to mentally prepare. Also, if you prefer ‘spending’ elaborate time on sex, you may have to make room for quickies for the time being. Don’t leave things to CHANCE!
Chidi & Victor Akunna
Romance & Intimacy Catalysts
Foundation for Family Affairs
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