Address your spouse as royalty.
The reality of life is that we all are products of nature (heredity) and nurture (upbringing).
This means that part of who we are can be linked to our biological parents, the people, and the environment we grew up in.
Sometime ago, I decided to walk through a path I rarely use. I do this sometimes in order to notice something new, or to change my routine. As I walked, I noticed apples on the ground, when I looked up, I saw an apple tree
🌲.
What is my point?
An apple tree🌲grows in temperate regions, not in tropical ones.
There is a suitable environment for you and your spouse.
People grow in an atmosphere of honour, respect, care, love, encouragement, inspiration, constructive feedback,… Can these be found in your home?
Does your spouse feel like a 100 × 100 achiever at work, but a 10 × 10 nobody in your presence?
If you and your spouse don’t create a conducive
environment, your home would feel and look like a waste land.
Intimacy is like an apple tree 🌲, it grows in the right environment; having the right seed (potential) is not enough.
How do I do this?
Let’s go back to where I started, create an atmosphere that nurtures royalty. Create an atmosphere of honour, in which your spouse can be themselves, share their thoughts, fears and weaknesses, without losing their dignity.
Honour resonates with a deep part of the human soul because we were all made in the image of a KING!
Victor Akunna
Romance and Intimacy Catalyst
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