Most times, we look for what we want in a relationship…I want tall, dark and handsome, 6-pack, visionary, great sense of humour, etc …and for the guys, I want a figure-8 girl, beauty and brains, someone who can intelligently engage me in a discussion, a professional who knows who she is, etc. The list goes on and on…
What we forget to ask is, what do I have to offer this type of a guy or lady? This is so important because that person (Mr or Mrs. Right) is also looking for some qualities, they have a list as well, packed with items.
Hence, my advice is, be the person you want to attract… Can you marry YOU? Are you parasitic in your relationships? Are you too clever for your own self? Are you kind and warm? Marriage is like hiring a staff… the difference is that you are hiring someone to travel with you on the journey of life.
Therefore, to be hired,…you must be a valuable person. Marry Right!
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Victor Akunna
The Romance Academy
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